Reality

One text from Mark after almost two weeks of trying to pin down a date.  April 29th is confirmed.

And suddenly, what was just a far off something unknown is now a very real, very near present thing about to happen.

A week and a half.

A week and a half until we take another step in our NF journey.  Until we see what so many parents have had to face numerous times and sometimes way more scary.

A week and a half until of being reminded that this beautiful girl is not our own.  That we don't control her future or her present.

A week and a half and the reminder that only God knows what our daughter needs.  How long she will walk this earth.  That He is in control.  It's very present and real right now.

And though I can't control the shaking at times.  I can't tell my body that everything is going to be alright and I can relax and be calm.  I can rely on my God and know that He alone is in control and He is not only holding Emmie in His hands.  But me.  And our other children.  And my amazing rock of a husband, Mark.

When our kids are born, we give them a verse that is our prayer for their lives.  Emmie's verses were Matthew 26:6-13 when the woman poured perfume out on Jesus' feet.  Jesus spoke beautiful words about her saying "Truly, I say to you, wherever the gospel is proclaimed in the whole world, what she has done, will also be told in memory of her."  We want  Emmie to make an impact for Christ in the world and this was and still is truly our prayer.

However, as we've walked this first year with her and learned more about how God has made her unique, we felt the Lord leading us to a more fitting verse to pray over her.

Proverbs 31:25
She is clothed with strength and dignity,
      and she laughs without fear of the future.

If you know our Super Em, you'll know those verses fit her to a 't.'  Our prayer is that she continues to face the future without fear and that her beautiful silly laughter will help us also to face it the same.  Thank you for the prayer and understanding as we take time to spend with our family this next week and a half.

February Randoms

Here's an eye-ful of February for all of ya'll!
 Warrior Josiah putting on his war paint.



 Eek!  Those smiles!


 Neighbors!  Usually when a few of us come out, we call come out and the kids draw with chalk (on themselves or the sidewalk) and play.  The adults get to visit too.  I love our neighborhood and our street is a wonderful community!


 Zoe made cinnamon rolls for when we hosted our friends, The Rensburgs from South Africa.  The hosting was fun.  The rolls were awesome!
 Ace.  Yeah.
 We spent much of February and some of March with at least one if not two or three children sick at a time.  Well, Mark and I were sick too.  It was definitely a tough month.  We survived with very little antibiotics and healthy.  While it was tough being sick.  I so loved the cuddles that came with the yuckies.

When Mark traveled to San Francisco (he promises he's working on that), we loaded the kids up to take him to the airport.  When he checked in the clerk made us all wait and ran in the back and came out with a box of goodies for the kids.  They were so nice.  I know people can say a lot of things about Delta but this customer service won my kids for life.

Bryant thought he'd try out a mohawk.

 This is what 20 pounds of green beans looks like.  I can safely say that we have enough green beans put up for the rest of the year.

Warm Fire, Warm Home

I believe I mentioned that we were working on the fireplace changing it out from a decorative electric to a funtional gas.  With hosting this winter, it meant it was an extra slow process.  But it's done!


Dry wall up, fire going.  It was so cozy warm and awesome!

 Working on the stone.  This was lightweight stone facade called Air Stone.  It was easy (don't ask Mark...he was the cutter), to cut and went on with their adhesive glue gloop.  Once we got in to a groove, it got easier and went faster.  I placed, marked and handed off.  Mark cut and sometimes installed or would hand back to me to put the glue on and stick up.
 I really do love it! It makes the room so much more inviting  It wasn't expensive either.  We paid around $75 for the whole facade and had plenty leftover.


T-Shirt Fundraiser

We've created a page specifically on our blog to link to fundraiser and adoption updates.  But, I wanted to update on the home page as well.

We  have an awesome friend who just happens to be a graphic artist.  Okay, she's really just a great artist who does graphic design as well!  She agreed to design a t-shirt for us for a fundraiser and here it is:

The verse is one we felt led to use for Y the Brave's coming home! 
Psalm 145:5-6 On the glorious splendor of your majesty, and on your wondrous works, I will meditate.They shall speak of the might of your awesome deeds, and I will declare your greatness.
T-shirts are $20.  Plus shipping when applicable.  Orders can be placed via our Paypal account.  This is a pre-order.  We will take orders until May 1st and then place a bulk order locally with Big Frog

 We are so excited to be able to buy locally and work with some amazing people over at Big Frog.

To order via Paypal, you can go here:



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The Sitters

Papa and Grandmere graciously offered to watch the kids while Mark and I were at Emmie's appointment and our quick getaway.  

Of course, the kids were ecstatic.




 Emmie managed to get quite a bit of cuddles and loving from them too!





 While we were there, Papa & Grandmere hosted two young ladies with Life Action Ministries as they came to minister at their church.  Not only were these two ladies homeschooled, they also were from large families.  So, being around our crazy kids was second nature.




No Words

I've been trying for two days to come up with what to say here.  An update for Emmie.  Something I definitely don't want to type.  But, I know that we have so many friends from all over who are praying for her and us that I feel I need to update you all too.  I just really have no idea how to put a title on this one.

Thursday morning we received a call from the neurosurgeon's nurse practitioner.  She told us that Dr. C had consulted around and wanted to talk to us about surgery.  Obviously, if a doctor wants to meet with you, it's not good.  We've learned that pretty quickly.  However, because Dr. C is two hours away Mark set up to talk over the phone.  We were supposed to talk Thursday afternoon but after not hearing from him at the appointed time, Mark called the office and they told us he was in surgery.

So, we waited.

This is the interesting part.

I was out getting Easter clothes for the boys while Mark was cutting grass.  One off the kids was in charge of watching Emmie.  And that child was watching her.  However, the child had set her on the couch, while the child was watching her...she fell off.  Thankfully, the child caught her before she fell all the way on the floor but she led with her hands.  I got home ten minutes after the episode and she was still crying and not using her hands too much.

A quick call to the pediatrician and I whisked her up and got her there faster than I will admit.  Dr. B sent her on to x-rays next door and called the radiologist to let him know about her NF.  They also gave her a bit of motrin.  Quick x-rays and we were back to Dr. B to await results.  Thankfully, by that time, she was finally settling down and with her arm braced against me, went to sleep.  Over an hour of pitiful painful crying.  I was heartbroken and Dr. B was getting worried.

Thankfully, the x-rays showed nothing was broken.  The best that Mark and I can figure is that she sprained her wrists.  She continued to favor her wrists the rest of the night but did use them some.  Saturday was a bit better.

So, on the way home we got the call from Dr.  C.  He had consulted with ENTs, general surgeons, and everyone else in between all across the country.  They were all in consensus, something needs to be done sooner rather than later.  The reasoning is that the worse the kyphosis gets, the harder it will be to repair it and the less successful it will be.  Dr. C looked at other options besides surgery but Dr. W confirmed that chemo would not be good at her age or for the type of plexiform neurofibroma.

That leaves us with one option...surgery.  A general surgeon and Dr. C will both be working on Emmie.  We should be hearing from the scheduler within the week with possible dates.  We do know that it will be within this next month.  Because the kyphosis hasn't gotten significantly worse in the past six months, we don't want it to keep heading in that direction.

The hope is that the surgery, which will remove as much of the plexiform as possible (called debulking), will significantly correct the kyphosis.  Again, the goal is to try and delay the kyphosis correction as long as possible because her bones are so soft (due to age).

I feel like I'm typing somebody else's life right now. Not ours.  But here it is.  If you ask how we're doing, we'll be honest...not good.  We know God is in control.  We definitely trust Him.  But this is so hard.



We will update when surgery day is scheduled.  For now, if you feel led to pray, here is what God has laid on our hearts:

1.  For steady hands and wise doctors.
2.  I am feverishly trying to plan out the rest of the kids' school so that they can work on some of it while we are in the hospital and recovering. Please pray I can get it all done and getting all the normal travel things ready.

3.  Peace for the kids and us and our family.
4.  Good coordination of schedules with grandparents, aunts, or other childcare volunteers.  We have expressed to both our sets of grandparents that we would like for them to sit with us during the procedure.  That means we'll need childcare for the children who won't be at the hospital.

Spring in to a Sale...No Joke!

It may be April Fool's Day but this is no joke!  Lilla Rose is having a sale for one day only.



60% on headbands, ya'll!  I love Lilla Rose headbands.  Not only are they super pretty, they are also very comfy and fit several head types because they are adjustable.



Oh, and since it's April 1st, we have a new flexi of the month too.  Introducing,
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